How To Own And Handle A Sex Doll When You Have A Girlfriend

In recent years, the concept of owning a sex doll has gained a distinct identity and attention. Because of the rapid and advanced advancements in technology, several more realistic and customizable options have emerged. However, when you are in a permanent, serious, or committed relationship, incorporating a sex doll into your life or relationship can often be a sensitive and potentially more challenging topic. There are many keys like open communication, trust, and mutual understanding with your partner to maintain a healthy relationship while considering such decisions and options. Sex dolls or sex toys are usually kept secretly in secret places or hidden in such a place that no one will ever see them. But due to modernity and wild imaginations, the scenario is changing, and with every passing day, the chances of involving a sex doll in the relationship are increasing, and people are now strongly venturing into it. But with this, the challenge is also being seen in maintaining the relations due to possible concerns and apprehensions. But many key factors can play an important role in involving the sex doll and keeping the relationship sweet.

So in this article, we will learn how to have a sex doll with your girlfriend or wife, and how to introduce them to it, tips and tricks to manage your fantasies, passion, and relationship together. So to get comfortable about this and learn more, keep reading the article till the end.

How Do You Introduce Your Girlfriend To A Sex Doll? 8 Essential Tips And Tricks On Managing A Relationship Together

There would hardly be any woman who would like the interference of a third person, be it another woman or a sex doll in female form. However, the trends and tastes of people have changed unimaginably in recent years, and men and women all look for something unique, wild, and to add extra fun. In such a situation, a sex doll can make a dramatic difference which will not only fulfill the fantasies but also reshape the relationship between the couples. But as easy as it is to say, in reality, it is equally difficult to apply. This requires clear communication, honesty, and working on other things with your partner, which can be challenging.

So if you're considering including a sex doll while dating or in the middle of a relationship, and are curious and excited to start the conversation with your partner, we've got some great tips, tricks, and suggestions for you. These are as follows:

#1: Take Time Instead Of Rushing

Haste can break your relationships, this is an extremely sensitive issue. Many people make the mistake of ejecting their sex doll suddenly without talking or at the time of sex. Unless you're sure your girlfriend or partner is comfortable and ready for these kinds of surprises, it's best to keep it at a distance. If you are clueless about how the presence of a sex doll will make your partner feel, there are chances that you may stress her unnecessarily, and over time this can create conflict in your relationships, or worse anxieties and insecurities.

So the best way is to pick the right time and talk to them. Apart from physical intimacy and fantasy, it is important to make time for communication with your partner first. It can be a little easier when you're already dating. Because you've ideally already been talking a lot about each other's sexual preferences, bringing in a sex doll will make it easier to tell them.

But it's worth mentioning that talking about it in the early days of sexuality and dating requires a certain amount of vulnerability that you may not feel in the early days. However, this is normal as there is never a right and sufficient time to have a conversation about including a sex doll in a partnership. It can take a few weeks or months to open up with each other when you start dating, and when you feel you've achieved confidence and proper depth, it might be time to mention the fun toys.

#2: Positive Initiative

Once you have chosen the right moment, the next positive step is to introduce your sex doll to your girlfriend. You can't suddenly tell your girlfriend that you have a sex doll, or that you want to involve the doll in a relationship, because this sudden statement can shock her. Instead, you can have a healthy and romantic talk about your sexual activities, share your fantasies, and explore their fantasies, and when both of you are in a comfortable position, you can talk about this openly.

Telling your sex doll directly is likely to shock and upset her. Also keep in mind that when she is shocked to hear about your confession, do not get tense and be patient. Also, do not rush to show your sex doll to your girlfriend until she asks you about it, or she may say that she accepts and wants to see your doll.

#3: There's No Such Thing As Apologizing Or Criticizing

No matter how you approach this with your partner, and no matter how your partner reacts, you don't need to despair over it. Because you have not committed any crime it is a normal thing that your girlfriend or partner has to understand. Even if your partner reacts negatively to you after knowing this, but, you have to stand up for it with patience. Don't connect your fantasy of possessing your sex doll to your frustration or your criticism of your partner's negative reaction after knowing. This will unnecessarily encourage your girlfriend to be more negative.

You should never be ashamed or apologize for your desires and fantasies because it is about your enjoyment that is your right, and your apology may just add more stress and insecurity to your partner. Instead of giving up, you have to convince them that this sex doll is your way of discovery and happiness. Plus is just one of a myriad of exciting and fun things you can try together, and get more out of it. Your partner would also like both of you to get extra pleasure in sex, for which a sex doll can be a means. You have to make them feel that through this you can reach the highest level of happiness together.

#4: Don't Judge Her Sex Toys Or Compare Them To Your Sex Doll

Maybe your girlfriend is already using sex toys because, in today's time, the collection of sex toys by a girl is very common. In such a situation, do not try to justify her act, nor compare her sex toys with your sex doll, nor be jealous, but be a responsible sexual partner. Instead, accept it and try to make it feel like it can add more pleasure to both of you by letting them know about your sex doll. We all know that normal sex toys are wonderful, they add extra pleasure to sex and make sex awesome. Therefore, to tell your doll is good, do not judge its toys, nor try to impose your doll on its toys. If you can convince them of your dolls, your dolls, and their toys may open the door to better technology experiences and enjoyment.

#5: Never Force

If your girlfriend is not ready to accept or continue the conversation about your sex doll, you should never insist or pressure. Instead, you should work with them to find out why this acknowledgment is causing discomfort. It will then be easier for you to find avenues and address any underlying trauma about sex dolls or pleasure toys that is leading them to this decision. Talking about pleasure toys like sex dolls can be especially sensitive at first, as your partner may feel insecure about it. And that's true if you're not sure whether or not your partner will be open to trying new things. But it can also open doors for you, and you can start it. If you are willing to include your sex doll in your love life, then you would not mind discussing the possible reasons and communicating to the partner why you want them.

#6: Be Honest About Everything

If your girlfriend has never been involved in using sex dolls then it will be difficult for her to accept your sex doll and it will require a lot of effort from you. But, even then you have to be honest and forthright. Sometimes resorting to lying to get your point across can make things more complicated. So regardless of how awkward the situation will be after listening to you, you should be prepared that you are putting things in the right direction because everyone would prefer to know the truth rather than be comforted by a lie. Your girlfriend may be nervous if she's the initiate, and she may feel free to deny that she's interested in anything that comes between the both of you, even if it's a fun toy. But you should continue your efforts by being honest and forthright, and try to explain your thoughts about the physical (sexual) and emotional satisfaction and pleasure that can be derived from it.

For example- if you are considering a sex doll because you are having doubts or difficulties with your sex performance, focus, or virility, then your girlfriend should be clear about it.

#7: Try To Change Your Girlfriend's Perspective On Sex Dolls

You might already have a sex doll that your girlfriend has only just found out about, in which case your partner deserves a proper and satisfying answer as to why you felt the need for a sex doll. Many feelings and questions may arise in her mind, such as, are you not happy in the relationship with her, or are you feeling insecure with her, due to which you are using a sex doll? The questions can be numerous, so make sure that you are reasonable and detailed in explaining your points, and don't make them sound like you're making excuses. It would be wonderful if you could explain to them how having a sex doll has increased your sexual pleasure, experience, and performance. For example, if it were not for the sex doll, you would not be able to last so long in bed, there could be other unique reasons. That's why you should make sure that your girlfriend realizes how much the presence of the sex doll means to you.

There is also a possibility that the presence of the sex doll may make your partner feel inferior and consider the sex doll as their rival. So it is your responsibility to make sure that you explain to her the presence of the doll correctly. And most importantly, you can also testify that you are considering including sex dolls in the bedroom and intimacy for shared pleasure. However, do this only if you are sure that time is on your side.

#8: Shop For Custom Sex Dolls With Girlfriends

Finally, when she accepts your doll, let things take their course, or you can ask her if she would like to help you customize your sex doll. If she so desires, give her the freedom to choose the clothes, makeup, and other accessories for her sex doll. This will increase mutual trust and cooperation which will make it easier to incorporate the doll during sex and add to the enjoyment.

Can Sex Dolls Destroy Your Relationship?

Telling your girlfriend about your sex doll can create distance in the relationship, although there is no scope for it to happen always and with everyone. Because different people can understand sex dolls in different ways, some may find it a bit strange, and some may like it very much. Some people consider it a means to add extravagance to the pleasure, while some people may feel insecure, and may believe that the doll can take their place, and take away their importance.

However, the opinion of experts is positive. According to them, the notion that owning a sex doll can replace a woman (partner) is a common and unalterable misconception, and to remove these unwanted feelings, worries, and nervousness, it is necessary to have healthy and honest communication with your partner.

People should always keep in mind that sex dolls or other sex equipment can never make you better, or take the place of your partner. There is no point in accepting this misconception and believing that dolls can provide better pleasure than a partner. It can be just a different and slightly additional experience, but not a permanent replacement for a real partner. Dolls can work to enhance the pleasure between the couples, and it will surely make your sex play more spicy.

In 2016, a study was conducted by a professor at Chapman University whose findings were surprising. That's because the couples who claimed sexual satisfaction were experimenting with different types of sexual activity, including using a sex doll together. So it is clear that a sex doll is more likely to enhance pleasure and satisfaction than to sabotage or replace relationships.

Conclusion

Taking all the possibilities and opinions of experts and acceptance of people, it is clear that bringing a sex doll into your bedroom will improve your love life. A doll is also a solid way to bring extra pleasure into your communication and sex with your lady. This will help you both better understand what turns you on and what makes you feel good. However, introducing a sex doll into a relationship requires careful thought, communication, honesty, frankness, and a deep understanding of your partner's feelings. Although it is possible to own a sex doll without having a girlfriend, and, it will not create any insecurity anywhere. But keeping the relationship honest and healthy should always be the top priority. Feeling free to discuss motivations, limits, and potential challenges can lead to a stronger and more resilient partnership, adding intensity and satisfaction to the joy as well. Remember, whether you have one or many sex dolls, your ultimate goal should be trust, respect, honesty, and mutual happiness, and this is the foundation of strong relationships.